LeLaKi dari planet MaRiKh...PeReMPuaN dari planet ZuhRaH..??
"Mens are from Mars, Womens are from Venus"
Penah ko baca buku nie..?
Aku baru start baca semalam..lps donlot e-book dia kat tnet..
Ala2 buang tebiat gitu...
Dah lama aku tau psl buku nie since aku dok follow blog Ustaz Hasrizal --> saifulislam.com
Tapi baru tahun nie tergerak nak pi selongkaq apa isi kandungannya..
Buku nie mmg antara buku yg beliau suggest sgt2 utk dibaca oleh korang2 di luar sana yg nak kawen x lama lagi tu...
Intipati buku nie lebey kurang camnie laaa...
"Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus reveals new strategies for reducing tension in relationships and creating more love by first recognizing in great detail how men and women are different. It then offers practical suggestions about how to reduce frustration and disappointment and to create increasing happiness and intimacy. Relationships do not have to be such a struggle. Only when we do not understand one another is there tension, resentment, or conflict.."
Aku baca intro dia...cam menarik jer cara dia olah..meh aku share sket...
"Imagine that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. One day long ago the Martians, looking through their telescopes, discovered the Venusians. Just glimpsing the Venusians awakened feelings they had never known. They fell in love and quickly invented space travel and flew to Venus.
The Venusians welcomed the Martians with open arms. They had intuitively known that this day would come. Their hearts opened wide to a love they had never felt before.
The love between the Venusians and Martians was magical. They delighted in being together, doing things together, and sharing together. Though from different worlds, they revelled in their differences. They spent months learning about each other, exploring and appreciating their different needs, preferences, and behaviour patterns. For years they lived together in love and harmony.
Then they decided to fly to Earth. In the beginning everything was wonderful and beautiful. But the effects of Earth's atmosphere took hold, and one morning everyone woke up with a peculiar kind of amnesia selective amnesia!
Both the Martians and Venusians forgot that they were from different planets and were supposed to be different. In one morning everything they had learned about their differences was erased from their memory. And since that day men and women have been in conflict."
So..aku continue la baca smpai tetdo semalam..n smbung sket masa rehat tadi kat opis...
Actually..byk jgk la part yg dia mention tu agak betol..tp ada jgk part yg x apply to all people..x suma lelaki so Martians n x suma pompuan soo Venusians...
Part yg aku agree ialah:
- lelaki mmg ada tendency yg kuat utk jadi Mr. Fix-It
- perempuan mmg suka jadi Home-Improvement Committee
Mesti korang x paham kan..meh aku explain sket memandangkan aku sgt paham korang ni malas nak baca buku pnjang2 sndiri..mcm aku jgk laa..
Mr Fix-It dlm erti kata lelaki nie berkecenderungan utk bg immediate solutions apabila ade jer sbarang aduan dr mana2 pihak..n dalam kes nie pasangan dia laa..so-called Venusians..in fact, bila Venusians buat aduan a.k.a luahan perasaan dgn membebel2 tnpa henti..dia bukan nakkan solutions..dia just nak meluahkan perasaan & mengharapkan ada org sudi mendengar..that's it..lps dia membebel2 tu..insyaAllah lps tu ok laa..
Dan Home-Improvement Committee pulak ialah perempuan yg mmg nature dia suka bg komen dlm apa sj hal..walaupon komen tu x dialu2kan...dlm buku tu ckp..lelaki nie suka explore sndiri utk cari solutions dlm apa2 hal..n dia nak Venusians nie just trust them & leave it to them..so no need to offer any suggestions or unsolicited advice..unless they request for it..wallahualam..aku pn xtau betoi ke dak nie..
However...as i read through...in certain extent..i feel like i'm more Martians than Venusians...hahaa...pengsannn legu nie...like i'm not a healthy woman...huhuu..
Penah ko baca buku nie..?
Aku baru start baca semalam..lps donlot e-book dia kat tnet..
Ala2 buang tebiat gitu...
Dah lama aku tau psl buku nie since aku dok follow blog Ustaz Hasrizal --> saifulislam.com
Tapi baru tahun nie tergerak nak pi selongkaq apa isi kandungannya..
Buku nie mmg antara buku yg beliau suggest sgt2 utk dibaca oleh korang2 di luar sana yg nak kawen x lama lagi tu...
Intipati buku nie lebey kurang camnie laaa...
"Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus reveals new strategies for reducing tension in relationships and creating more love by first recognizing in great detail how men and women are different. It then offers practical suggestions about how to reduce frustration and disappointment and to create increasing happiness and intimacy. Relationships do not have to be such a struggle. Only when we do not understand one another is there tension, resentment, or conflict.."
Aku baca intro dia...cam menarik jer cara dia olah..meh aku share sket...
"Imagine that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. One day long ago the Martians, looking through their telescopes, discovered the Venusians. Just glimpsing the Venusians awakened feelings they had never known. They fell in love and quickly invented space travel and flew to Venus.
The Venusians welcomed the Martians with open arms. They had intuitively known that this day would come. Their hearts opened wide to a love they had never felt before.
The love between the Venusians and Martians was magical. They delighted in being together, doing things together, and sharing together. Though from different worlds, they revelled in their differences. They spent months learning about each other, exploring and appreciating their different needs, preferences, and behaviour patterns. For years they lived together in love and harmony.
Then they decided to fly to Earth. In the beginning everything was wonderful and beautiful. But the effects of Earth's atmosphere took hold, and one morning everyone woke up with a peculiar kind of amnesia selective amnesia!
Both the Martians and Venusians forgot that they were from different planets and were supposed to be different. In one morning everything they had learned about their differences was erased from their memory. And since that day men and women have been in conflict."
So..aku continue la baca smpai tetdo semalam..n smbung sket masa rehat tadi kat opis...
Actually..byk jgk la part yg dia mention tu agak betol..tp ada jgk part yg x apply to all people..x suma lelaki so Martians n x suma pompuan soo Venusians...
Part yg aku agree ialah:
- lelaki mmg ada tendency yg kuat utk jadi Mr. Fix-It
- perempuan mmg suka jadi Home-Improvement Committee
Mesti korang x paham kan..meh aku explain sket memandangkan aku sgt paham korang ni malas nak baca buku pnjang2 sndiri..mcm aku jgk laa..
Mr Fix-It dlm erti kata lelaki nie berkecenderungan utk bg immediate solutions apabila ade jer sbarang aduan dr mana2 pihak..n dalam kes nie pasangan dia laa..so-called Venusians..in fact, bila Venusians buat aduan a.k.a luahan perasaan dgn membebel2 tnpa henti..dia bukan nakkan solutions..dia just nak meluahkan perasaan & mengharapkan ada org sudi mendengar..that's it..lps dia membebel2 tu..insyaAllah lps tu ok laa..
Dan Home-Improvement Committee pulak ialah perempuan yg mmg nature dia suka bg komen dlm apa sj hal..walaupon komen tu x dialu2kan...dlm buku tu ckp..lelaki nie suka explore sndiri utk cari solutions dlm apa2 hal..n dia nak Venusians nie just trust them & leave it to them..so no need to offer any suggestions or unsolicited advice..unless they request for it..wallahualam..aku pn xtau betoi ke dak nie..
However...as i read through...in certain extent..i feel like i'm more Martians than Venusians...hahaa...pengsannn legu nie...like i'm not a healthy woman...huhuu..
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